Monday, 16 November 2015

In The Last Week...




Along with the rest of Twitter, Facebook and Instagram shared a photo of Cornwall-land's lovely sunrise.


Batman thought he was a snake.



My adult real life job gave me this fancy gizmo to help me do more work better. It genuinely took me more than 3 days to set it up.



Took shameless Sunday makeup free selfies in my brand new 'layering top' that I dragged Harps around dotty-p's to find.


Totally became obsessed with Luther. Binge watching is the best.

And finally, got all political yesterday here.

What's new with you dears? Muchos plans this week ahead? 

Love Sophie Xx

Sunday, 15 November 2015

A Word On The Attacks In Paris...


Friday night my phone was on charge upstairs. When I came up around an hour after the attacks had begun I couldn't sleep. Harps and I stayed up until after midnight, tracking the terror as it unfolded, finally sleeping just after the death toll had been confirmed at over 80. Saturday morning when I woke it had risen to over 120. Yesterday morning I searched the news for updates and a sinking feeling etched through me as I clicked onto Facebook. I knew what was coming. Understandable fear and prayers flooded my newsfeed- solidarity the main theme. Scattered amongst these though were comments of hatred. "Close the borders. We don't know what we're doing letting refugees into Europe. We don't know who they are or what they want." Was one to name a few. As you can imagine, more racist, derogatory, religion-bating posts, likes and shares were also there. From people I deem as friends. It scared me.

I feel quite passionate about sharing my views this morning. They may not be quite the same as yours and thats ok. I really do understand the fear that our world feels. Facebook prompts the world to show solidarity with Paris by changing our profile photo to the tricolore, of course I did this to show my support. But Facebook didn't offer to change the settings for the bombing in Beirut which killed 41 just a few days ago. Or how about the four in Thailand in the same few days? I feel that the western media is something that pokes at our deepest fears when it suits them; disguising the scale of the actual problem when it isn't at our doorstep. In my opinion, by doing so it spreads the fear only when it's applicable to us and isn't it time that we looked at humanity as a whole? 

Unable to sleep again on Saturday night, I lay and thought about my future. A future for Harps and I includes the plans for starting a family. But what kind of world will we be bringing a child into? I spent a few hours debating with someone that I'd consider a family member who was of the opinion that 'All religion should be made illegal.' What a sad view that belief should be policed, erased and destroyed. Isn't belief something that makes humanity so unique, that makes life and freedom so special? How can we carry on in a world where people now suggest that all refugees are a danger to our homes? When these people have witnessed their own homes, villages and families be destroyed by the very same people; not in the name of any kind of religion but in the name of hate. How can we continue to wake up only when it suits us? 

I fear we're on the brink of a whole new world war. I'm almost typing that as a whisper. How much longer can the dictatorship in North Korea continue before the world makes a stand? How much longer can Russia hide their brutal political system, evident of homophobia, missiles and corruption before the world takes a stand? How much longer can Australia hide their horrific prisoner systems before the world takes a stand?  How much longer can America hide their mass surveillance, corrupt powers (and lets face it the list goes on) before the world takes a stand? How much longer will the UK do almost all of the above before the world takes a stand? And finally, how much longer will we keep fearing the good before we start fighting the bad?

I don't believe that the people who's comments angered me yesterday or racist or horrific people in any way (I don't associate myself with those I would consider are or course). But fear and anger spreads and the 1.8 billion muslims in this world are NOT the less than 2% of people who commit these acts. Nor are the over 6.5 million refugees fleeing exactly the same hatred that we fear coming to our shores. Pray for Paris please, but at the same time pray for Beirut, Thailand, Baghdad and the rest of the world.

Love Sophie. Xx

Thursday, 12 November 2015

Autumn Reads 2015.



"This is a hardboiled crime novel, and a true story. In 1944, Jack Kerouac and William Burroughs, then still unknown writers, were both arrested following a murder: one of their friends had stabbed another and then come to them for advice - neither had told the police. Later they wrote this fictionalised account of that summer - of a group of friends in wartime New York, moving through each other's apartments, drinking, necking, talking and taking drugs and haphazardly drifting towards a bloody crime. Unpublished for years, And the Hippos were Boiled in their Tanks is a remarkable insight into the lives and literary development of two great writers."

This is actually the book I've just started reading...again. I started it back in August and was promptly distracted by a book that Leona leant me (not listed here) thus leaving it in the to-read pile until now. Though only on the first 50 or so pages, the writing style and imaginative flair make it no surprise that two of histories most influential writers have captivated me.



"On an autumn day in 1686, eighteen-year-old Nella Oortman knocks at the door of a grand house in the wealthiest quarter of Amsterdam. She has come from the country to begin a new life as the wife of illustrious merchant trader Johannes Brandt, but instead she is met by his sharp-tongued sister, Marin. Only later does Johannes appear and present her with an extraordinary wedding gift: a cabinet-sized replica of their home. It is to be furnished by an elusive miniaturist, whose tiny creations mirror their real-life counterparts in unexpected ways . . ."

My most recent read to date. The Miniaturist is probably one of the most 'unlike me' book I've read in a while. Not often do I read 'period dated' novels and it was more of an impulse purchase than anything else. Saying that, Jessie Burton's debut novel was both page turning and thrilling, following Nella's journey in Amsterdam. It really kept me reading, so much so, that i finished it in a matter of days! A great snuggle under a blanket book.



"Maud is forgetful. She makes a cup of tea and doesn't remember to drink it. She goes to the shops and forgets why she went. Sometimes her home is unrecognisable - or her daughter Helen seems a total stranger. But there's one thing Maud is sure of: her friend Elizabeth is missing. The note in her pocket tells her so. And no matter who tells her to stop going on about it, to leave it alone, to shut up, Maud will get to the bottom of it. Because somewhere in Maud's damaged mind lies the answer to an unsolved seventy-year-old mystery. One everyone has forgotten about. Everyone, except Maud . . ."


It's pretty rare for me to cry whilst reading a book. It's rare that it'll haunt me for a little while after I finish turning the pages. It's unlikely that I'll forget reading this anytime soon though. I actually started this on a train journey and by the end of that journey I was in pieces. Emma Healey writes from the perspective of Maud as she struggles to hold onto memories and the people whom she loves. Touching an extra nerve for me, having had a relative who battled dementia before passing, this book is written with delicacy and humour and every possible emotion you could want this autumn.



"Forty-one-year-old geneticist Don Tillman had never had a second date before he met Rosie. Now, living in New York City, they have survived ten months and ten days of marriage, even if Don has had to sacrifice standardised meals and embrace unscheduled sex.But then Rosie drops the mother of all bombshells. And Don must prepare for the biggest challenge of his previously ordered life - while dodging deportation, prosecution and professional disgrace. Is Don Tillman ready to become the man he always dreamed of being? Or will he revert to his old ways and risk losing Rosie for ever? "

You should read 'The Rosie Project' before this. But what am I saying, I'm years behind on this book, I remember how much people loved them both when they came out. Though I prefer the first novel, The Rosie Effect is charming, a quick read, if a little outdated. 




"Rosemary is now an only child, but she used to have a sister the same age as her, and an older brother. Both are now gone - vanished from her life. There's something unique about Rosemary's sister, Fern. And it was this decision, made by her parents, to give Rosemary a sister like no other, that began all of Rosemary's trouble. So now she's telling her story: full of hilarious asides and brilliantly spiky lines, it's a looping narrative that begins towards the end, and then goes back to the beginning. Twice."

I think this may have been another impulse buy at the same time as 'The Miniaturist.' This book even more-so was not one that I've regretted reading. A novel rarely makes you feel so empowered for change and honesty then this has and after a little chat about how inspiring it was, I've ended up lending it to the lovely Charlene. I hope that she enjoys it as much as I did. 



Feel free to get in contact if you'd like me to send one of these onto you. I'd love to know if you have any recommendations based on these few recent reads? And of course I'd love to know if you've read any of the above also!


Love Sophie Xx

Tuesday, 10 November 2015

Netflix Loves From A Netflix Addict. #Boxsets






Let's not pretend that I haven't put off blogging and generally being an adult over the last few weeks ok? It also doesn't take a genius to work out what I've spent a large portion of practical daylight hours doing... *Netflix is like this magic vortex isn't it? So easy to waste a day or two or three..ahem. Another mini confession actually (Jeez I'm full of them this week!) We've been watching, from the beginning, How I Met Your Mother. Couldn't be later to the party if I tried. (Yes I loved it and we've finished it and I'm sad). Back to Netflix though. I thought I'd put together a little post about some of the boxsets we've watched in full in our years of subscription addiction. So what sort of thing are you in the mood for? I've got you covered. (This is the UK version by the way, I'd much rather have the US version though, it has loads of things I want to binge watch aka FRIENDS!)



B O X S E T S


COMEDY



  • The Regular Show- For a cartoon fix and general tomfoolery comedy.
  • Arrested Development- For a Netflix original series that's full of laughs you'll repeat for years.
  • Trailer Park Boys- For silly, lazy viewing. *Side note, you should totally youtube Liquor and Whores for a great song by Bubbles*
  • Portlanida- A quirky comedy for fans of sketch shows.
  • Brooklyn Nine Nine- A great, original, hilarious and (rare on Netflix) still running!
  • Outnumbered- A quintessential British comedy that pretty much everyone watched when it was on tv.
  • Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt- Leona's favourite and for a great reason.
  • Wet Hot American Summer: First Day Of Camp- Nostalgia overload. Make sure you watch this alongside the original film. Also available.
  • Blackadder- I am a massive fan of old British classic comedy and Blackadder is a series that I've loved since childhood.
  • The Office (US version is best but UK version is ok too!)- Both are great BUT Michael Scott is me in 10 years.
  • Fawlty Towers- Another British classic that's probably not quite PC to watch now. 
  • Bottom- Surely this doesn't need an explanation? 
  • Chuck- I really loved Chuck and it surprises me how many people don't! It's cheesy but perfect binge watchable, harmless fun.
  • Archer- I really like cartoons ok? It's hard to find acceptable cartoons to watch as an adult. Archer is DEFINITELY for adults though.
  • That 70's Show- This show never gets old. And it never stops being funny. Even is, like me you watched it when it was on tv when you were younger. Watch it again and love it on a whole new level.




DRAMA



  • House- One of my favourite programmes ever made. Ever.
  • Prison Break- There are many reasons to love this drama. Shirtless Wentworth Miller to name but one. But I loved how clever this show was!
  • Breaking Bad- Just gonna get this out of my system. We totally watched Breaking Bad before it was cool. That's how cool I am. I think it might even be my early viewing that made it so famous. 
  • Gossip Girl- It was after Gossip Girl had finished being on tv when I watched this show religiously on Netflix through one winter. It was probably my first real Netflix binge boxset. And it's legendary.
  • Better Call Saul- I'm still finding my feet with this programme plot wise, but I just love the cinematography that I spend most of my time distracted by how well made it is.
  • Homeland- Let's just say it. Homeland peaked too soon. Watch the first two (maybe three) seasons and then give up like I have. It's too much.
  • Houndini- One of the most underrated and well made BBC dramas I've ever seen.
  • Orange Is The New Black- For all the reasons. Obviously. Though I do think that for prison dramas you should watch Prison Break first.
  • 24- Harps and I started this on Netflix and it's by far the longest boxsets we've ever watched. I loved everything about 24 though and even it's comeback show 24: Live another day, was brilliant in my opinion.
  • Sons Of Anarchy - Honestly, there was a time when Netflix only showed up to season five of SOA and we stopped watching it. By the time the rest has been uploaded we've just never finished it. 
  • Death In Paradise- This is another really underrated British drama. Totally harmless but cosy tv viewing.
  • Dexter- Dexter was the best up until the last season. And especially the last episode before it finished which is probably 1) worst way to end a brilliant series ever.
  • Daredevil- I usually find that these Marvel Universe series are a bit...shit. Daredevil is the exception though and I'm looking forward to the next season later this year.



OTHER



  • Ted Talks -All- they almost make it feel like procrastination isn't even happening! How can I complain that I've done nothing with my day when I've learnt all about the deep seas? 
  • Frozen Planet- I could watch these shows all day long.
  • Mythbusters- For all those party facts to have up your sleeves.
  • Life- Another must watch for nature lovers.
  • Planet Earth- See above.


Of course I haven't even started on the documentaries or even the film lists. They'll have to wait for another day. In that time, you've got a lot of procrastination to catch up on!

Have you seen any of these boxsets? Maybe you have one to recommend me?

Love Sophie XX



*This isn't part of any affiliation of any kind. I'm just an addict who needs help.


Saturday, 7 November 2015

Location Location Location: Lanhydrock Cycle Trails.





These sunny days are meant to last. The weather has been kind over the last few weeks and it's given us a chance to get our more than our little Cornish land usually allows at this time of year. During a bit of life panic, Harps swept me outside for a little bike ride, I say little because I spent most of the time talking to wildlife and taking photos. Lanhydrock is part of the National Trust and is home to the most beautiful and fascinating house, boasting title of 'grandest in the county'. With the weather so glorious, we weren't there to learn about Victorian life indoors, nor were we here to admire the perfectly coiffed and manicured gardens, we were here to explore the captivating, wild estate and the newly added bike trails that bring cyclists and dog walkers alike. The estate itself is free to enter, making it an ever better choice for a day out in the sunshine and the variable skilled trails are suitable for all abilities.





Incase you've never heard me mention, I have really big problems with my knees. I'd probably worry, once upon a time of making that seem too serious but they've got to a stage (after about six years) of severe pain that cycling is actually quite high impact for me. Harps, on the other hand works with bicycles every day and loves a chance to get me riding with him. As much as I loved the wind in my hair, it wasn't long before I'd had to stop too many times to stretch my knees out, that I totally lost him. Both resting and documenting my missing status, imagining families finding my phone months later and hunting for clues as to where 'the lady stuck in the woods' is, I tried not to wonder too far, wishing I'd made a trail of breadcrumbs and taking some of the loveliest photos.


Eventually Harps found me (look how excited I am to have been reunited!) and flitted between riding the shorter trails and my knees having a rest and taking poor quality photos of him. I am not the sports photographer he needs me to be.



And I made some friends with nature. I actually had to be moved along by Harps because I spent so long talking to the caterpillar.


Finally we headed to the dog friendly bike cafe and scoffed some chocolate cake and cold drinks, before heading home via the National Trust gift shop/plant centre and picking up a few herb seeds that are sprouting really quite nicely.

Have you been to Lanhydrock? Maybe it's on your list of places to go? This winter I plan to head to the house and have a quiet day roaming the halls of history. Do let me know if you fancy coming along!

Here's some other places in Cornwall that you might want to add to your Location list:



Love Sophie Xx